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Friends, today we have brought such an exercise for you people, by doing which you can end someone's illicit relationship, if that illegitimate relationship hurts you or someone in your house. Troubled, trouble is coming and you want to end it, you can do it, but your motive should be justified, you should not spoil someone's good relationship, do this stipend only for illegitimate relationship, you should pay attention to this post till the end. read from and take advantage of.
A Haram Relationship?
Do you know what is considered a haram relationship? The definition of a haram relationship is a romantic or non-professional relationship between a man and a woman of marriageable age who are not each other’s mehrams. The stamp of “haram” does not only apply to illegal sexual intercourse, it also applies to touching, friendship beyond a professional level, chatting on the phone, and texting with the opposite sex. Basically, any sort of relationship with a non-mehram person of the opposite gender (beyond a non-romantic, necessity-based nature) will be considered haram. This is because there is an Islamic principle which states that anything which leads to the haram is also haram.
The Prophet (SAW) warned, “Behold! A man is not alone with a (non-mehram) woman but the third amongst them is Shaytan.” (Jami Al-Tirmidhi, 265) Which means that Shaytan will definitely turn an innocent meeting or conversation into something which is wrong and lustful.
So, if chatting between friends has the potential to develop into a haram romantic relationship, then chatting is off the table. If texting one-on-one has the potential of developing into a haram relationship, then that’s off the table, too. And even if something is strictly platonic, and you think that there is no way that could turn into something romantic, it’s still off the table because laws are made for the rule, not the exception. And Islamic laws are no different.
The Qur’an says, “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty.” (24:30) The same was also said for women in the following verse.
Why Do Youngsters Engage In Haram Relationships?
Many people ask the question, “Is friendship between a boy and girl allowed in Islam?” Simply look at the definition of haram relationships above and gauge for yourself. If there is the potential for wrongful feelings do develop, then that activity is something you should stay away from. But why do people find it hard to stay away from haram relationships? And more importantly, why do Muslim youngsters engage in this sin, thinking it to be okay?
Lack of knowledge: Most young Muslims today are not informed about the importance of staying away from the opposite sex. They are not told what Islam says about having a crush. They are not told what the Qur’an says about relationships between boys and girls in Islam. They are not told the proper way of courtship in Islam. So, no wonder they think that having a boyfriend or girlfriend is okay. And even if someone tells them that it’s wrong, they think it is simply old people speaking, not religion. But the Prophet (SAW) said, following the same rule of whatever-leads-to-haram-is-haram, “The zina (adultery) of the eyes is looking (at that which is not allowed to look at).” (Bukhari, Muslim)
Lack of parental guidance: At such a young age, when the years are few but emotions many, youngsters think that every other boy or girl is the love of their life. At that tender age, it is important for parents to guide their children towards the right path and teach them the difference between true love and false love. And false love is anything which leads away from Allah (SWT), so if an impermissible relationship in Islam is going to lead a person away from Allah (SWT), then it can not be considered true love in Islam.
Peer pressure: With all your friends around you in seemingly loving relationships and dating people, it might seem like you’re the odd one out if you don’t have a partner and are not invited to couples’ outings. That might push you into finding a girlfriend or boyfriend yourself. But at what cost?
Temptations of Youth: Youth is the age of temptations. And every forbidden thing seems attractive at that age, not to mention the opposite gender which seems attractive even in later stages of life. No wonder the Prophet (SAW) said that the man who resists the temptation of a beautiful woman of nobility will be one of the seven people who will receive the Shade of Allah (SWT) on the Day of Judgement when there will be no other shade (Bukhari).
how to quit a haram relationship in islam
Effects of Haram Relationships
Apart from the obvious sins that you gather from engaging in a wrongful relationship, there are many other effects of haram relationships.
Loss of barakah (blessings) is halal relationships when you engage in a haram relationship and do not step out of it or repent for it.
The opportunity for repentance is taken away the more and more you sink into sin, thinking it to be allowed.
The heart becomes hardened from sin, making you less merciful and less bothered by wrongful actions around you.
You lose the ability to enjoy worship such as salah (prayer), tilawat (recitation), and dhikr (remembrance).
He/she leaves the circle of true imaan when in a relationship. The Prophet (SAW) said, “Faith comes out of a person whilst he commits fornication.” (Mishkat)
The dating person’s modesty (haya) diminishes, and modesty is the defining characteristic of Islam, as mentioned by the Prophet (SAW) in a famous hadith.
How To Quit A Haram Relationship
If you are in a wrongful relationship, you should know that our religion also teaches us how to overcome that. Islam recognizes that sins of the flesh are common because Shaytan is always on the lookout to lead people astray. That is why our religion teaches us some practical tips and duas to help us stay on the right path. Below are some very useful tips to help you stay away from a wrong relationship if you are in one.
Tawbah i.e. repentance. The first step to overcoming a problem is accepting that you have a problem. You’ve read above what haram relationships are and you can recognize if you are in one. The next step to overcoming the problem is to repent from it and promise yourself to never commit the sin again. And remember, Allah says in the Qur’an that He is Ever-Ready to forgive. “Say: O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He Who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” (39:53). For more guidance, go through our earlier post on Forgiveness In Islam.
Fast whenever you can. The Qur’an tells us that for people who are not married, but feel sexual desire, they should fast until they are able to marry. Fasting curbs sexual desires and keeps them at bay. The single Muslim is told to fast in a hadith of the Prophet (SAW): “Whoever amongst you can afford to get married, let him do so, and whoever can not afford it should fast for it will be a restraint for him.” (Sunan Al-Nisa’i)
Make dua and pray to Allah (SWT) to help you stay away from sin. Ask Him with all your heart and with all sincerity. Allah (SWT) loves those who ask Him. And ask Allah (SWT) to grant you a righteous spouse in a blessed relationship instead of a partner in an unlawful relationship.
Since Shaytan is the third in a room where a non-mehram man and woman are alone, it is obvious that he will try to plant unlawful thoughts in either person’s head. And a thought leads to the intention which leads to action. Avoid being alone with a person from the opposite sex.
Do not prolong conversations with non-mehrams. Keep your voice firm and business-like when you have to talk to them so that in case there are any evil thoughts, you can nip them in the bud and give a clear message that your intentions are pure and only professional.
Get married as soon as possible. Our religion also encourages marriage at an early age i.e. right after puberty. Allah will settle you if you get married!
Make Dua. If you’ve fallen prey to a haram relationship, it is important hat you quit it today. You don’t owe anyone an explanation except Allah. Just remove all of it from your life and make dua to Allah.
How To Avoid Haram Love?
Here are some simple things you can do to avoid falling in the trap of shaitan through haram relationships:
Improve Your Worship
Lower Your Gaze
Remove The Objects Of Passion From Your Life
Keep Yourself Busy In Good Deeds
Marry According To Shariah
Wazifa to break haram relationship
Friends, today's action is about ending the Haram relationship. Friends, many people have a girl or a boy, many people have an illicit relationship with each other And because of that relationship, many people have trouble. Many people have to be ashamed. If someone has an illicit relationship with someone and you want to end that. So you can implement this. Friends, the implementation is very easy, which we are going to tell you guys.
So friends let's start wazifa, first of all you guys have to read Durood Sharif three times in the beginning, whatever Durood Sharif you remember You can read that. After that then you have to read a very lovely name of Allah Tabarak Watala" ya Kaharo" You have to read this name 111 times And when you will read this name. Then you have to read again Bismillahirrahmanirrahim and then you have to read this verse "Wal Asar innal Insana lafi khusr" you have to read this verse also 111 times then when you read it then you will get bismillahirrahmanirrahim Read the same name again," ya Kaharo" 111 times and then when you read that name then at the end you have to read the same Durood-e-Pak thrice which you read in the beginning.
That's all you need to do. And when you will do it, then in your heart and mind, only those people should be taken care of, whose relationship you want to end. You will do this implementation only for right purpose, there are some conditions of this implementation which we should tell you people, this implementation is not to be done for illegitimate work.
And there is no time restriction in this, you can do it at any time. And you can do it any day. You have to do this in the condition of clean. You have to do this exercise with full faith and confidence. You should do this practice continuously for at least 3 days. And at the most you have to do this for 7 days
You will see that the illegitimate relationship of both of them will end with the blessings of this Kalam. Those between whom there is an illicit relationship. And you will be successful in it.
You must do this practice, it is a very powerful practice. Your problem will be completely removed and you will see that the illegitimate relationship will also end and someone will also have trouble Won't happen.
Your problem will go away, try this , you will get benefit very soon .
we hope you guys have understood everything very well, if you have any question then you can ask us in the comment. .
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